This is: Do As We Say, Not As They Did

Hey NerdLovers, did you know that Doc has a new podcast? I've teamed up with my good friend (and actual doctor) Dr. Liz Powell to bring you some of the best dating discourse and relationship advice on the Internet, as well as some of the most eye-opening and jaw-dropping stories and topics around sex, love and dating. And hoooo doctor is this one a doozy. If you've been missing the old PDNL podcast, this is one for you! Find us on all your favorite podcatchers, YouTube and Spotify! Do Women Actually Care About Load Size…or is it Just Other Men? Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation? In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell talk about the men who really, really care about shooting ropes like Spider-Man. That's right. They're talking about nutmaxxers. Fueled by the fantasies of porn and a desire for self-optimization, these men might say their "enhanced performance" is for their partners, but Dr. Liz and Harris have their doubts. Highlights of the episode: Porn "money shots" aren't what you think Fast and Furious movies are a little like porn Having sex…with your balls?! 👀 If you're interested in staying blissfully unaware about the secret lives of nutmaxxers, turn away now, because things are about to get a little sticky. Time Stamps 0:00 – Intro bloopers & ADHD brains unite 2:00 – Why this podcast is pre-recorded 5:00 – Meet the Nutmaxxers: semen obsession & supplement culture 10:00 – Cum fetish vs. the unbearable cringe of this article 14:00 – Porn isn't real 20:00 – Male insecurity 26:00 – Fantasy vs. reality 34:00 – "I don't want a gallon on my face" 38:00 – Micropenises, oral skills, and redefining good sex 45:00 – Bad partners, poor communication, and load shame 52:00 – Actually useful advice 58:00 – Why men need to listen (and not just to each other) 1:06:00 – What's really sexy 1:12:00 – Final thoughts: Be a person, not a cum performance robot Stay Connected 📩 Business Inquiries: doaswesaypod@gmail.com 📸 Instagram: 💙 BlueSky: 🐦 Twitter: 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/doaswesaypod ⏰ TikTok:

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This is: Do As We Say, Not As They Did is an episode from Paging Dr. NerdLove by Harris O'Malley.

This episode is 01:21:14 long.

This episode was published on Apr 8, 2026.

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