OTWC 042: The Myth of "The Flow"
The most common question I get when talking about expressing needs during sex is, " Doesn't it wreck the mood? " As infuriating as I find it...
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Welcome to On The Wet Coast, a blog & podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety. We talk polyamory and swinging, monogamish and open relationships; from dirty, dirty...
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OTWC 041: Tristan Taormino and Telling Your Story as Resistance
Our sex-negative culture pushes us to repress and feel shame about our sexuality or lifestyle. Stepping out of the shadows and telling your...
OTWC 040: Novelty, Being in the Moment, and Gangbangs - On The Wet Coast
One of the most exciting things about non-monogamy can be the novelty of new adventures and new people in our lives. At the same time, one o...
OTWC 039: Texting, Sexting, and Messaging - On The Wet Coast
There's a certain art to crafting the right kind of message to convey what we're feeling via characters on a screen. Since so much of modern...
OTWC 038: Accountability and Consent - On The Wet Coast
Accountability and Consent can feel like the least fun topics to discuss when it comes to sexy lifestyles but when we really focus on buildi...
OTWC 037: Disappointing Dates - On The Wet Coast
It's always a bummer when dates don't go as planned or don't happen at all. There can be all kinds of reasons why things don't turn out as y...
OTWC 036: Strapping It On - On The Wet Coast
It's no secret that On The Wet Coast, we love our sex toys. Using those toys for strap-on sex is one of our favourite ways to engage with pa...
OTWC 035: Sexual Confidence - On The Wet Coast
We're always told that confidence is sexy, but how do we find the confidence to be our true sexual selves? How do we embrace our bodies and...
OTWC 034: Chosen Family - On The Wet Coast
Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like...
OTWC 033: Get Your Flirt On - On The Wet Coast
Figuring out how to express our interest in someone can be one of the most challenging things in dating, especially if we find them really a...
OTWC 032 - Sex Work Matters - On The Wet Coast
Since the passage of FOSTA/SESTA in the US, sexual content on the internet has been progressively quashed, starting with shutting down place...
OTWC 031 - Libido - On The Wet Coast
Our desire for sexual experiences--both solo and with a partner or partners--fluctuates for countless reasons. Stress, fatigue, hormones, de...
OTWC 030 - Building Community - On The Wet Coast
If you're lucky, the place where you're living has a thriving sex -positive community and it takes little effort to find and take part in ev...
OTWC 029 - Consent - On The Wet Coast
Consent is a topic that has been an essential part of the non-monogamy experience, though not everyone is great at asking for or respecting...
OTWC 028 - Have You Met Flick? - On The Wet Coast
We're doing something a little different on this episode. Many of you know a whole lot about Kat Stark thanks to their blog posts and book Y...
OTWC 027: Jealousy Revisited - On The Wet Coast
Jealousy is a complex emotion that usually arises when we feel threatened or like we're not getting our needs met. It is almost always the r...
OTWC 026: Sex, Geeks, and Sexy Geekery - On The Wet Coast
Geekery & non-monogamy crossover in so many ways. So many of the people we've met, connected with, and sexed up have been fellow geeks that...
OTWC 025: Kinky Communication - On The Wet Coast
Sex, particularly kinky sex, is still a taboo subject in our sex negative culture. We're not supposed to talk about it so we don't learn goo...
OTWC 024: More/Better Sex - On The Wet Coast
Click-baity title aside, many people would like to figure out how to get more sex and better sex in their lives. It's not a priority for eve...
OTWC 023: Dating During Upheaval - On The Wet Coast
Ideally, when we're meeting, dating, and sexing on people we want to be our best selves. We want to be feeling stable and settled and able t...