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Welcome to On The Wet Coast, a blog & podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety. We talk polyamory and swinging, monogamish and open relationships; from dirty, dirty...

The most common question I get when talking about expressing needs during sex is, " Doesn't it wreck the mood? " As infuriating as I find it...

Our sex-negative culture pushes us to repress and feel shame about our sexuality or lifestyle. Stepping out of the shadows and telling your...

One of the most exciting things about non-monogamy can be the novelty of new adventures and new people in our lives. At the same time, one o...

There's a certain art to crafting the right kind of message to convey what we're feeling via characters on a screen. Since so much of modern...

Accountability and Consent can feel like the least fun topics to discuss when it comes to sexy lifestyles but when we really focus on buildi...

It's always a bummer when dates don't go as planned or don't happen at all. There can be all kinds of reasons why things don't turn out as y...

It's no secret that On The Wet Coast, we love our sex toys. Using those toys for strap-on sex is one of our favourite ways to engage with pa...

We're always told that confidence is sexy, but how do we find the confidence to be our true sexual selves? How do we embrace our bodies and...

Finding your people can be one of the most important things you do as you make your way in the world, and when you find them, it feels like...

Figuring out how to express our interest in someone can be one of the most challenging things in dating, especially if we find them really a...

Since the passage of FOSTA/SESTA in the US, sexual content on the internet has been progressively quashed, starting with shutting down place...

Our desire for sexual experiences--both solo and with a partner or partners--fluctuates for countless reasons. Stress, fatigue, hormones, de...

If you're lucky, the place where you're living has a thriving sex -positive community and it takes little effort to find and take part in ev...

Consent is a topic that has been an essential part of the non-monogamy experience, though not everyone is great at asking for or respecting...

We're doing something a little different on this episode. Many of you know a whole lot about Kat Stark thanks to their blog posts and book Y...

Jealousy is a complex emotion that usually arises when we feel threatened or like we're not getting our needs met. It is almost always the r...

Geekery & non-monogamy crossover in so many ways. So many of the people we've met, connected with, and sexed up have been fellow geeks that...

Sex, particularly kinky sex, is still a taboo subject in our sex negative culture. We're not supposed to talk about it so we don't learn goo...

Click-baity title aside, many people would like to figure out how to get more sex and better sex in their lives. It's not a priority for eve...

Ideally, when we're meeting, dating, and sexing on people we want to be our best selves. We want to be feeling stable and settled and able t...

Nearly everyone we know claims to be bad at flirting, the two of us included, but somehow many of us are scoring dates and getting laid. How...

Endless amounts of research has been done on the topic of love and relationships - generally focused on the heteronormative pair bonding tha...

Attraction is a mysterious thing. There are physical and personality characteristics in people we're almost always attracted to: perhaps a c...

Many of us in non-monogamy land started out in monogamous relationships. Not necessarily because those were right for us, but because they w...

Fantasizing is big part of most healthy sex lives. We fantasize about things we'd like to have done to us and/or what we'd like to do to oth...

Butt stuff! It's not just anal sex anymore, but a whole spectrum of ass play. What's the appeal and the fascination? In our lifetime, it's g...

We on the Wet Coast are huge fans of sex toys. We have a large collection and use them regularly both in solo play and with our partners. We...

Getting things started is not always easy. Sending that first message on a dating site. Putting yourself out there with your romantic or sex...

Like so many things in our lives, non-monogamous activity can be cyclical. There are times when we're out there dating a ton and boning all...

People whose identities don't conform to the norms within a community often feel isolated from that community. Figuring out how to fit in wh...

Not every relationship lasts forever--Whaaa?--turns out that happily ever after was kind of a fraudulent bill of goods we were sold as kids...

Sexy Vacations can be one of the incredibly fun perks of a non-monogamous lifestyle. Going to different cities and countries is always amazi...

In this episode of the On The Wet Coast podcast, we examine our experiences of public bisexuality through exhibitionism and how it relates t...

The relationships between women in non-monogamy are rarely discussed other than that bisexual babes are hot together. Women have been taught...

One of the exceedingly fun features of non-monogamy can be group sex. Sexy, sweaty bodies writhing in a naked pile can be an outstanding exp...

One of the exceedingly fun features of non-monogamy can be group sex. Sexy, sweaty bodies writhing in a naked pile can be an outstanding exp...

All relationships require communication, but good communication is even more essential in ethically non-monogamous relationships where multi...

Autonomy is a challenging subject for many of us. We're encouraged to be independent while at the same time we're told that putting the need...

On this episode we be discuss Triad relationships with special guest Iris @irisopens on Twitter Flick & I are podcasting from our first tria...

On this episode we'll be discussing mental illness in non-monogamy with special guest Cooper S Beckett from Life On The Swingset podcast and...

On this episode we're discussing Stress in ethical non-monogamy. There are so many positive aspects about open relationships but one of the...

Welcome to On The Wet Coast a podcast about sexuality and ethical non-monogamy of every variety. On this episode - originally released on th...