A Fight About Who’s Allowed To Have A Crush

Is having a crush the secret to a happy relationship, or the gateway drug to a ruinous affair? We can't agree. Meanwhile, comedian Nikki Glaser says that sexual cheating is a turn-on and emotional cheating is a no-no. Who's right, who's deluded, and who should just be single, according to Emily Vernem? Plus, enthusiasm for hobbies is at an-all time high, but why does it feel like men get all the good ones, while women get the leftovers of leisure? Holly Wainwright talks about her life-changing gardening habit, but acknowledges it's first to go when life gets busy. So what's an untouchable 'Sovereign Hobby', and how do we get one? And, there is an unofficial list of things women do to look like they have their shit together, and it involves everything from keeping whites white, to having enough coathangers, to knowing what stock is. Clare Stephens just wishes she could remember the snacks. TV RECCOS SPECIAL Clare's watching: DTF St. Louis on HBO Max. A dark, nonlinear comedy about a love triangle, a dating app for married people, and David Harbour being incredibly likable. Holly's watching: Riot Women on SBS. Created by Happy Valley 's Sally Wainwright, it's a brilliant look at five middle-aged women who decide to form a punk band. Em's watching: Margo's Got Money Troubles on Apple TV. Starring Elle Fanning, Michelle Pfeiffer, and Nick Offerman, it's the story of a college dropout navigating new motherhood and mounting bills. SUBSCRIPTION GIVEAWAY: Win a $2,000 Bed Threads voucher.

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A Fight About Who’s Allowed To Have A Crush is an episode from Mamamia Out Loud by Mamamia Podcasts.

This episode is 58:35 long.

This episode was published on Apr 17, 2026.

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