He's Gay. She's a Lesbian. They're In a Co-Parenting Arrangement With Their Son
Brandi and Lawrence aren't a couple. He's a gay man, she's a lesbian, and they were best friends first, until they decided, in their twentie...
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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram
There is so much great and life-changing information about sex and intimacy, but let’s face it, it can be dry as hell! Intimacy expert and sexologist Shan Boodram takes a deep dive into anyt...
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20 of 185 episodesCriticism Has No Place in a Relationship ft. The Gottmans
Drs. John and Julie Schwartz Gottman have followed 3,000 couples, some of them for twenty years, second by second, and in this conversation...
The Lengths One Catfish Went to Avoid Getting Caught
Kamie Crawford (former co-host of MTV's Catfish: The TV Show, now host of Relationsht*) sits down with Shan to unpack what actually keeps a...
Listen Again: Singer Mario Opens Up About Emotional Healing After Maternal Trauma
In this deeply personal episode presented by Bumble, singer Mario opens up about the profound impact of unresolved trauma stemming from his...
Listen Again: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS ft. Lena Waithe
We've been on a short break the past two weeks, so we're revisiting one of our favorites: Lena Waithe on why she won't have sex with someone...
Listen Again: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft. Cree Summer
We're on a short break the next two weeks, so we're revisiting one of our favorites: Cree Summer on losing (and finding again) her sex drive...
If There Was a Female Version of “Viagra”, Would You Take It?
#AD This episode is sponsored by Daré Bioscience. DARE to PLAY™ Sildenafil Cream is a compounded drug. It is not FDA-approved. This product...
Naomi Sharon: Learning About OCD Taught Me Why I Can't Let Go
Naomi Sharon is an R&B singer-songwriter, the first woman signed to Drake's OVO Sound label, and the voice behind Obsidian — an album she wr...
Does Unrequited Love Mean the Love Wasn't Real? ft. Tanerélle
Tanerélle is a singer-songwriter whose voice sits somewhere between neo-soul and quiet revelation, with singles like feels like love and Not...
I Embarrassed Him and We Had to Talk About It
There are three forms of intimacy every relationship runs on — and most couples only know two of them. Emotional intimacy, physical intimacy...
Stop Turning Me Into Inspiration Porn — Ericka Hart on Nasty Work
Ericka Hart (she/they) is a sex educator, author, and breast cancer survivor who has spent their career arguing that pleasure isn't a luxury...
Loving Someone Based on How They Present Is the Whole Problem
Thanks to Stasis for sponsoring this video. Hold your stimulant to a higher standard — go to https://yt.link/iD6LFRL and use code LOVERS for...
The Most Intimate Thing a Man Can Do for His Family ft. Jared Brady & Jonathan Singletary
Jared Brady and Jonathan Singletary sit down to talk about fatherhood, inheritance, and the difference between intention and what's already...
How to Be in a Relationship Without One Foot Out the Door - Inayah on Going from Leaver to Lover
https://yt.link/quMC2B9 → thank you for the sponsor of this episode hers. Learn more about hers. Inayah on what it actually takes to stop be...
He Cheated. Then He Had a Son. Here's What He Did Differently
Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join Beducated today at https://beducate.me/loversbyshan. Big love to the sponsor of this e...
I'm Sorry.
A few weeks ago I put out the Melissa Ford episode, and the comments told me something I already knew before I hit publish: I crossed a line...
If Good Women Are Opting Out of Dating… Maybe Ask Why Ft. Melyssa Ford
Showing some love of the sponsor of this episode #BEDucated. Join Beducated today at https://beducate.me/loversapril. Shout out to the spons...
Everyone Wants This Kind of Love… Until It Costs Them Something
Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://bed...
Is It Wrong to Still Want Attention if You’re in a Relationship ft. Lauren Morrison
Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://bed...
This Changes How You See Avoidantly Attached People ft. Dr. Amir Levine
Showing love to our sponsor Arya. You deserve a novelty and pleasure in your intimate, ESPECIALLY in light of Mothers’ Day. Head to https://...