How should u tell her? Are u serious?!!!!!!

Okay y'all, I got this message from this guy the other day. It took me a couple of days to answer it, because I was trying to figure out how to keep my cool and not call him a punk BEEEYOTCH!!!! Oh, wow, I guess I didn't make it, huh? Ok, so anywayz…I won't reprint the letter, nor will I publish his name simply because he asked me not to. I will say that it is my sincere hope that he does not delete me for what I am about to say…but, I warned u all from day one "don't ask if u don't want to know". I do not sugar coat anything, and Imma give it to u raw and uncut, so here goes… The question was this…in so many words…"how do I tell my wife that I'm bisexual?" wtf? Okay, let me just say this first…the answer is "you don't"!!!!! Before y'all get to jumping on me for telling this man to keep a secret, let me tell you why I said this, for those of yall that don't already know. I say don't tell her, because she already knows!!!! Telling her is just a way to relieve your conscience. No woman could be married to a man and not know that he has a certain "affection" for men. We may pretend for as long as nobody else realizes it, but we know EVERYTHING!!! There are no secrets in relationships for women. If we don't say anything, it's because we aren't ready to leave yet. When u fukk up, we know..and we make a conscience decision to deal or not. That goes for cheating and whatever else. Some women are not willing to let go of a decent relationship because of a minor or sometimes major indiscretion. But we always know…some women are a little more emotional than others and will jap out on you for everything that they catch u doing. Not necessarily because u did it, but because u were either too stupid or didn't care enough to do a better job at hiding it. Most things are forgivable as long as nobody else gets wind of it. Once somebody finds out what u did, most women will make a big deal out of it and immediately come out of denial or break their silence for fear of being ridiculed for being a "dumb bitch" for putting up with your shit. But basically, the deal is this…if u got skeletons, and u think your girl don't know, don't ease your conscience by telling her because there's a reason she's not saying anything about it. You spilling the beans will force her to deal with the situation head on, and u might not like the outcome. Let her deal with the shit her own way. U do the dirt, u live with the guilt – GOOD FOR YOUR AZZ!!! But don't make her pay for it twice…she'll tell you she knows when she's ready to deal with it. Or she may sweep it under the rug to save the relationship. Either way, it's just better to keep it to yourself. Unless u know the other bitch bout to tell on yo azz, then, u better fess up quick so there aint no surprises. Even though a real bitch gonna act like she already know anywayz and then whoop the bitch azz for bringing that shit to her in the first place….lmao And what kinda bitch-made nigga tells on himself anywayz?!!!! Punk Bastard!!!!! And just for future reference….if any of yall ever see my man wit another bitch, don't nobody better tell me nuthin!!! Lmao BITCH, I ALREADY KNOW!!!!! GET YO OWN MAN, AND WORRY ABOUT HIS AZZ!!!!

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How should u tell her? Are u serious?!!!!!! is an episode from Laa Hotspot's podcast.

This episode is 20:41 long.

This episode was published on Dec 31, 2007.

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