Why you need to stop looking for a spark on first dates
What are the most important but underrated characteristics we should be looking for in a partner? And what qualities do we place too much em...
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How to Date
How to Date is a show about to master the messy, complex, and downright bizarre world of dating, when you really didn't think you'd be back here again. Your hosts Dr Amantha Imber and Moniqu...
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Tip of the week: The dating mindset you NEED to adopt now
Amantha and Monique discuss the dating mindset that will help you have the most success during the first few dates with someone. Reach out t...
Should you use a matchmaking agency?
What sort of people benefit most from a matchmaking agency? What are the most important qualities we should be looking for in a mate? How ca...
Tip of the week: What you need to STOP looking for in potential matches
Amantha and Monique discuss what you need to STOP looking for in your search for a mate. Reach out to Amantha and Monique at hi@howtodate.fm...
The ideal first date outfit
How can we avoid that "I don't know what to wear" feeling before a first date? What are wardrobe hacks we can use to look and feel great? Ho...
Tip of the week: Are you an anxious or avoidant type?
Amantha and Monique discuss the most important dating theory you need to know about - Attachment Theory - and how to work out your attachmen...
The three most common types of dating scams
What are the most common dating scams that you need to watch out for? How can we get better at spotting fake profiles? What are the psycholo...
Tip of the week: How to avoid dating fatigue
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a practical strategy on how to get over something that affects every onl...
The most common cosmetic procedures for women in their 30s, 40s and 50s
What percentage of men and women are having cosmetic procedures done? What are the best cosmetic procedures to get if you are on a budget? W...
Tip of the week: Why you need to try "consecutive dating"
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss why you need to stop dating lots of people at the same time. Reach out t...
The most important qualities to look for in a long-term partner
How can you make better decisions about who to go on second dates with? Why is the best catch not the best looking person in the room? Why i...
Tip of the week: How to get people to actually write back to you on the apps
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a super effective strategy to dramatically increase the number of people...
What you need to know if you're thinking about trying an open relationship
How common are open relationships? What do you need to consider if you are thinking about trying an open relationship? How does sexual healt...
Why we shouldn't always trust our gut when it comes to making dating decisions
Should we trust our gut when deciding whether to go on a date with someone? What can science tell us about whether opposites attract or do b...
Tip of the week: A simple strategy to use for having difficult conversations with the people you are dating
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a simple strategy to use if you need to have a difficult conversation wi...
The ideal time to introduce your new partner to your kids
When is it ok to introduce our new partner to our kids? How do we know if our kids are ready to accept a new partner into our lives? When is...
Tip of the week: How to uncover whether someone’s profile photos are fake.
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a simple way to uncover whether someone's profile photos are fake. Check...
The ideal amount of time to wait before we have sex with someone we are dating
How long should we wait to have sex with someone we are dating? How do you clearly voice what your boundaries are in relation to sex? Is it...
Tip of the week: How to decide who pays on your date
Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a simple way to decide who pays on your date. Reach out to Amantha and M...
The number one quality to look for in a romantic partner
What is the most important quality we should be looking for in a partner? Do immediate sparks predict relationship success? What can we lear...