370. When You Hit the Relational Wall

This week, we’re talking about hitting a relational wall—you know, when you love the people in your life but also kind of can’t stand being around them? Yep, that one. It’s one of the hardest walls to face because we’re only half of the equation, and it can feel messy, exhausting, and honestly, pretty lonely. In this episode, I open up about how I’ve navigated relational shutdown, what Proverbs says about gentle answers (and why gentleness isn’t weakness), and the tools I use to move toward connection without losing myself. I’ll show you how to write the message you won’t regret, ask better questions that invite instead of accuse, and set boundaries that protect without punishing. Need help navigating those hard conversations? Grab my free Conversation Cheat Sheet for practical phrases to open hearts, not wounds. Link here: And if you want to go even deeper, check out my book I Do Boundaries—it’s your guide to loving people without losing yourself -

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370. When You Hit the Relational Wall is an episode from Home with Havilah by Havilah Cunnington.

This episode is 00:22:01 long.

This episode was published on Jul 23, 2025.

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