Raising Kids "Right" Without Losing the Relationship - Episode #186 with Chris & Jessie Koerner

I’m sitting down with Chris and Jesse Koerner from the “How’d You Do It?” podcast, and we’re talking about what it really looks like to parent with intention- without holding so tightly to rules and expectations that we lose connection along the way. We get into the real stuff: how to stay flexible when life (and kids) don’t follow the plan, how to figure out what actually motivates each of your kids (because what works for one might totally flop for another), and why family travel has been such a meaningful way for them to build connection. We also talk honestly about raising kids in a digital world, learning from our mistakes (because there will be plenty), and why open, ongoing communication matters more than getting everything “right.” It’s a thoughtful, encouraging conversation that will remind you: you don’t have to parent perfectly to raise kids who feel deeply loved and secure. Links mentioned in the episode: For $50 OFF Troomi Wireless cell phone, use code: HAPPY find Chris & Jessie’s Podcast: “How’d You Do It” in your favorite podcast app: Apple & Spotify VidAngel - 30 day free trial with code: HELPING Takeaways You can parent with intention and leave room for flexibility Many parents regret being too strict with their children What motivates one child might not work for another- and that’s okay! Mistakes are part of the process (for us and for our kids!) Family travel can create connection in really meaningful ways Giving kids a voice builds trust and buy in over time As kids grow, respecting their independence becomes more important (this can be a tough one!) Parenting isn’t one size fits all (even within the same family) Love, safety, and connection matter more than getting everything “right” There are no guarantees in parenting- just a lot of learning along the way Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Koerner Family and Their Podcast 03:59 Parenting Intentions and Strategies 08:58 Lessons from Podcast Guests 15:04 Incentives and Rewards in Parenting 20:11 Family Travel and Recreation 24:49 Flexibility in Parenting Rules 30:03 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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Raising Kids "Right" Without Losing the Relationship - Episode #186 with Chris & Jessie Koerner is an episode from Helping of Happiness by Hillary Hess.

This episode is 00:35:22 long.

This episode was published on Mar 30, 2026.

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