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Welcome to Halftime Adjustment Coaching. We will use locker room talks, halftime type speeches, and character traits to teach manhood, leadership, and build teams of men.

God’s original blueprint for the family Pt 1 def: blueprint, purpose, subdue, team Blueprint: a design plan or other technical drawing. Purp...

What is vision and why do we need it for a family? Vision: the ability of sight; the act or power of imagination “The most pathetic person i...

Here's what we have developed over the last 20+ years as a family: family verse, family vision, family rules, family expectations, blessing...

Family Remodel Episode #2 Culture vs Christ Happy vs Blessed Culture says do what makes you happy. The Bible says the man who follows His wa...

Why family remodel? Where are we, where are we going, how are we going to get there? Remodel-To make over in structure or style; reconstruct...

The heart of the Rewired Men's Conference is the men's lives transformed by the Gospel lived out in the local Church. What's the foundation...

Word of the Week #30 Hope-your desire for something to happen. In a time when there is so much darkness, fear, and doubt being spread why no...

It's OU vs TX week and I hate Texas Football! Here's a story of one of the scariest coaches I ever played for. Dick Winder was the OC at OU...

Great teams play to the best of their ability week in and week out. Great teams don't play up or down to the level of their opponent they pl...

Manhood Moments-Friday Night Lights. Manhood does not happen by accident. Manhood is about intentionality. "Being male is a matter of birth....

The oline goes unnoticed unless they don't do their job. The oline mentality is a group of guys willing to do the things others won't so the...

Masculinity is the qualities or attributes regarded as characteristics of men. Toxic or poisonous masculinity is a skewed cultural construct...

I played football at OU but how I got there is an interesting story. February 1996 was when I was supposed to sign my scholarship to college...

I played in the Orange Bowl, the BCS Championship game at the time, on Jan 3, 2001. After the game about 2AM I went to Denny's at 2AM to eat...

Initiative is the ability to take the lead, take charge when no one else will. When adversity strikes you need leaders on your team who will...

Building a man is like building a house, you must start with the foundation, his faith. A man without faith is like a house built on a sand...

A coach is someone who helps you to see who you can be and gives you the action steps to get there. Coaching stories about Merv Johnson, My...

I got into a fight in the 9th grade in a game vs the El Reno Indians. I was hurt and angry because we lost the game, I let my team down, I l...

Passion is an internal desire to achieve your goals. I learned from Coach Venables and Spurrier JR how to coach with passion. They ran aroun...

I was a HS guard and went to college a center. At OU day one I was the 4th string center and I had never played center before and I was clue...

A game plan is the plan coaches prepare to attack an opponents weaknesses and to play to the strengths of their team. Leach Story Coaching s...

A paradox is a statement that contradicts itself. Dr Robert Lewis in Men's Fraternity states the paradox principle of manhood, a man must di...

Week #4 of College Football and Random Manhood thoughts Men are not designed to be an island Men need teammates to do life with Men need oth...

In week #1 I went 4-1 in my picks only missing the ND game. -If I could imprint one thing on my sons it would be courage. "I have the courag...

The Team Captain isn't always the MVP. The Team Captain is the team member who makes everyone else better. 2000 OU Team Captain Story My exp...

My top 5 games and random manhood thoughts True character in a man stiffens the spines of those around him. Toxic masculinity vs Noble mascu...

Team-Together Everyone Achieves More Team > Me A Team is a group of people unified under a common goal. The 2000 OU Football team was a t...

As a young coach I heard an experienced coach tell his players give me “Attitude and Effort” every play. It’s what he expected every play. W...

A man finishes stronger than he started. Great football players finish drills well and set an example for the younger players. "Finish" is m...

What does it mean for an athlete to have heart? To play with heart? Heart is the internal desire for an athlete to succeed, win, compete. It...

Play Like a Champion Today is the team motto or slogan for the Oklahoma Sooner Football team. It is has been in their lockerroom since the l...

Fatherhood is in the little moments everyday. Take the time to be present with your kids this weekend. Also call your Dad!

To lead courageously means to be up front leading in the face of fear. On the football field "Get Up Front!" In Genesis Ch 3 Eve lead not Ad...

The love for teammates is an intense care only built over a long period of time. A good coach earns the love of the team he leads by consist...

What does it mean to "Drop your Hips" on the football field? Authentic Manhood Point #2 Accept Responsibility Biblical examples: Adam Gen 2:...

Responsibility is something I must do or must take care of. Something or someone under me care. 5th grade story of my responsibility failure...

Respect is like a savings account. It takes a daily drop in the bucket built overtime. Respect is consistently overtime to build. Respect is...

The first point of Authentic Manhood is to Reject Passivity. Reject means to not accept something. Passivity means to allow things to happen...

Integrity is an inner strength of character or an inner sense of wholeness or completeness. Merv Johnson story. He is an honest man that I r...

Real fatherhood is intentional not accidental. One of the key issues in what some call the manhood crisis is the lack of fathers. There is a...

Humility is not thinking or speaking of yourself, it is thinking or speaking of the team you lead first. Bragging, telling anyone how great...

Excellence is your ability to do the average extraordinarily. As an oline coach I believed we must be excellent at the fundamentals. So I pi...

This part 2 of 3 of a keynote speech I did last year at the Rewired Men's Retreat. menrewired.com Begin to Heal 1 Peter 2:24 “ He himself bo...

Commitment is your emotional and spiritual tie to something, someone, or a team. My greatest commitment to anyone here on this earth is to m...

Mental Toughness is the ability to endure tough or difficult times. Mental toughness and physical toughness are tied together. Often times c...

This part 1 of 3 of a keynote speech I did last year at the Rewired Men's Retreat. menrewired.com This is what I needed to hear 10 years ago...

Unselfishness is the ability or mindset to not think of yourself first. The ability to think of the group above yourself. The most unselfish...

Patience is the ability to wait through adversity to achieve your goals. I once interviewed 5 times before getting my first head coaching jo...

Honesty is the ability to live out the truth or the ability to speak the truth. I asked my daughter what honesty was and she said "the truth...

Work Ethic is your ability to work hard in all situations in all you do. In this episode I tell a couple of stories from when I was playing...