How To Find Your Personal Style in 2026 (Without Generic Dated 'Rules')

In this episode, we’re throwing out the tired, generic style advice that’s been making women feel like they’re getting it “wrong” for years. You don’t need another list of “must-haves”, body shape diagrams, or colour rules – you need to start asking one powerful question: “Is this me?” Not: Does this flatter my figure? Is this the right colour for my undertone? Is this on trend for my age? Those questions are rooted in shame, judgment and external rules. This conversation is about coming back to you. In this episode, I talk about: Why generic style rules are failing you (and why they feel so flat and boring) The problem with shame-based advice like “does this flatter me?” Replacing “Is this flattering?” with “Is this me?” as your core style filter How your current wardrobe is already full of clues about your true style What your home, decor and environment reveal about what you’re genuinely drawn to How your upbringing, music, culture and memories quietly shape your taste Why we’ve never been taught to trust our instincts with style – and how to change that A simple process to start decoding your personal style from what you already own You’ll learn: How to spot the pieces you actually love versus the ones you “should” wear How to use your wardrobe, your home and even your Pinterest saves as a style mood board How to stop feeling like you’re “failing” at style and start feeling at home in your clothes Practical questions to ask yourself when you try something on so you know instantly if it’s you Try this after you listen: Go to your wardrobe and pull out the 5 things you wear on repeat Ask: What do these have in common? Shape, colour, fabric, mood? Then walk around your home and notice the same patterns in your decor Start building your outfits from those clues – not from someone else’s rulebook If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your style to strangers on the internet and start trusting your own instincts, this episode is for you. Sign-up to Substack for more advice here Here's my Instagram - follow Lisa here:

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How To Find Your Personal Style in 2026 (Without Generic Dated 'Rules') is an episode from Hags and Bags. Style Stories for the over 40’s by Lisa Gillbe.

This episode is 27:15 long.

This episode was published on Mar 12, 2026.

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