Restrung: Music, Grief, And Fatherhood With Matt Fogelson

When Matt Fogelson's father died of lung cancer during his senior year of college, he turned to music to express what words couldn't - rage, self-loathing, and grief so profound he didn't know where to put it. In this conversation, Matt - author of the new memoir Restrung - talks about the silence that surrounded his father's terminal illness, the vacuum left by an absent but beloved parent, and how grunge music (especially Soundgarden and Pearl Jam) created space for him to feel what was hard to put into words . Matt shares how his Aunt Wendy became his unlikely guide, why he wore his father's suits to work for years trying to feel close to him, and the breakthrough moment when Pearl Jam's "Release" helped him shift his relationship with his father's memory and his grief. We also discuss h ow grief shaped his approach to parenting, why he sang a Grateful Dead song to his son every night for 14 years, and the three songs he wishes he could share with his father now. Resources Matt's memoir Restrung (released February 3, 2026) Matt's Substack and music blog (Fine Tuning) More at dougy.org Grief Out Loud is a production of Dougy Center, the National Grief Center for Children and Families.

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Restrung: Music, Grief, And Fatherhood With Matt Fogelson is an episode from Grief Out Loud by The Dougy Center.

This episode is 43:51 long.

This episode was published on Feb 13, 2026.

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