
Episode 399: Escapism in the Lifestyle
For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of...
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The sexy swinger and hotwife podcast that doesn’t hold any punches! Join us for weekly peeks into our lives as non-monogamous people! We share it all: The good, the bad, the sexy moments, an...

For years, we viewed the lifestyle as our chance to experience true freedom. But we've come to realize we were really using it as a form of...

As attendees of MANY events over the years, we've seen it all when it comes to group play. And while some of it has clearly been fun and con...

We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services....

It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a...

A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get off...

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails...

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking subs...

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one impor...

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did...

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interperso...

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our...

Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitall...

It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all l...

"We're trying so hard to connect with lifestylers online, but we're having no luck! What gives?" We discuss how we are currently receiving d...

Stagnation and a lack of safety protocols in the lifestyle have left many lifestylers disenfranchised with clubs and events over the last ye...

A forum post leads to a very interesting conversation around shared sexual identities in couples, regret in the lifestyle, and when it's ok...

An emotional and raw episode of FPS.... A listener email had Brenna all in her feels about her struggles with body image issues, including i...

Everyone has to start somewhere in the lifestyle, but is it also ok to not want to bang people that are brand new to the space? We discuss t...

Since we're all just mammals at the end of the day, it makes perfect sense that the biological urges seen in nature can also be seen in the...

A post on a swingers' forum had us scratching our heads about the state of "old school swinging," and led to in-depth conversations about co...

A message from a single man looking to enter the lifestyle spurs a conversation on the balance between being honest and being kind... We als...

A trip down memory lane reminds us of the things that felt very taboo and naughty before getting into the lifestyle. And how truly vanilla t...

A jam packed and very vulnerable episode about Brenna's imposter syndrome in the lifestyle, fears for our future as a hotwife couple, and so...

As two proud members of the LGBTQ community, we have some very strong opinions about inclusivity in the lifestyle. Nowhere is this more impo...

We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations betwe...

A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?"...

After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple...

Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of...

Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he...

Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is...

Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidel...

Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifesty...

A controversial take on married or otherwise partnered men in the lifestyle.... We discuss some of the ire we have received over the years f...

As we approach the 5th year anniversary of our largest event of the year, we have some important questions for each other: What do we want f...

A very interesting pool party experience has us questioning if we're ready to jump back into couple for couple play... Plus, we discuss the...

Our personal perceptions on ourselves, and on the world around us, have such an interesting impact on the lifestyle. From who we are attract...

After helping to facilitate a kink event over the weekend, we were reminded of how different the space can be from the lifestyle... Plus, Br...

Join us for one of the most candid and honest conversations we've ever had on the podcast.... Hear our origin stories, and the truths behind...

Everyone values something different out of a lifestyle experience, but when should cost be the most important factor? Plus, a continued hiat...

How important is attraction when deciding who to play with? And does that answer change in the hotwife lifestyle versus in the couple for co...

A whole year of sobriety has done so much good in our lives. But how has it most impacted our lifestyle journey? Plus, we discuss the evolut...

Brenna hosted an event alone in Denver, and the results left her in tears.... in a very good way! Find out what we mean! Plus, MANY tips and...

Brenna has seen a trend with younger guys looking to get into the lifestyle that has her questioning if the cougar life might be right for h...

With the many hoops single men have to jump through in the lifestyle, it's no wonder many of the longer-term guys are experiencing "bull bur...

Brenna invited a very sexy man to come stay the night at our place while Brian was fast asleep in the next room... What happened during thei...

Brian traveled across three time zones to go to.... a couples event? Alone? Hear how it went! Plus, what naughtiness did Brenna enjoy in his...

Brian is going to a lifestyle event, by himself? What are our feelings on that? Plus, how have we found peace in the lifestyle given all of...

Episode 352 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast delves further into the issue of maintaining an erection in the lifestyle, after MANY messag...

Is it acceptable to wear bootie shorts and ripped fishnets to a lifestyle event? What are some of the trends we're currently seeing in the l...

Episode 350 of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast delves into all sorts of topics! Brenna enjoyed a full 8 hour date, partially clothed and pa...