What Christian Guys Wish Girls Knew (But Won't Say)

In this special episode, we’re joined by two godly and hilarious single Christian men — Calvin and Charles — for a real and unfiltered conversation about all things dating, attraction, and pursuing relationships that honor Jesus. From long-distance love stories to thoughts on modesty, vulnerability, and what they're actually looking for in a wife, this episode is packed with honesty, humor, and lots of wisdom. We got to ask the questions so many girls are wondering, and these guys delivered! Whether you're single and curious, dating and discerning, or just love some godly banter, this one is for you! In This Episode 00:00 – Welcome to "The Boys" Episode 01:00 – Meet Calvin: Southern Charm & Startup Life 03:30 – Meet Charles: Creative, Construction, & Looking for Love 05:30 – Thoughts on Long Distance Relationships 10:00 – Charles’ Story: Australia, Dating, & Accountability 14:30 – When a Bikini Pic Is a Dealbreaker 18:00 – What Christian Men Look for on Instagram 22:00 – Homemaking, Femininity, and What’s Actually Attractive 25:00 – Are Christian Guys Actually Asking Girls Out? 29:00 – How Calvin Discerns Who to Date 33:00 – Charles’ Bold Approach & Discernment in Pursuit 36:00 – The Problem with Being Unapproachable 45:00 – "If He Wanted To, He Would" — True or False? 48:00 – Final Thoughts & Advice for Christian Women 51:00 – Calvin & Charles' 30-Second Wife Pitches Meet Calvin LinkedIn Email Check out Numa Meet Charles Instagram Delight Ministries Looking for a Delight Chapter near you? Check out Delightministries.com to find one. If there's not one near you, and you want to help start one, let us know! We would love to talk. ORDER OUR NEW STUDY!⁠ This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors ⁠⁠⁠Winshape⁠⁠⁠: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more or submit your application today⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! If you’d like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form!

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What Christian Guys Wish Girls Knew (But Won't Say) is an episode from For The Girl by Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham.

This episode is 61:48 long.

This episode was published on Feb 3, 2026.

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