Top Three Estate Planning Mistakes That Spark Conflict

Family conflict rarely starts with money—it starts with silence. We tackle the three biggest estate planning mistakes that turn small gaps into full-blown feuds: poor communication, procrastination, and ignoring the real price of long-term care. With attorney Haley Madsen joining Greg McIntyre, we share a clear, practical roadmap to protect your loved ones, your home, and your peace of mind. First, we unpack why secrecy around roles—agent under a durable power of attorney, executor, trustee, and successors—creates suspicion and delays when decisions must be made fast. You’ll hear how to tell your spouse and adult children exactly what you’ve assigned, what you expect, and where documents live, plus smart ways to split duties based on strengths without fueling sibling rivalries. We also talk candidly about how kids can start the planning conversation with reluctant parents and keep it focused on logistics, not fear. Next, we confront the cost of waiting. From emergency guardianship to rushed probate, last‑minute planning is expensive and messy. We outline the core documents every family needs, the powers that make elder law planning possible, and how regular check‑ins keep your plan aligned with life changes. Then we dive into the numbers on long-term care—$10,000 to $14,000 per month in many areas—and walk through strategies to protect savings and the family home, including timing for Medicaid’s five‑year lookback and when irrevocable trusts or deed tools make sense. You’ll leave with a simple action list: name agents and backups, communicate roles in writing, gather contacts and accounts on one page, and begin long-term care planning well before you need it. If you’re ready to replace mystery with clarity and panic with a plan, this conversation gives you the steps to start today.

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Top Three Estate Planning Mistakes That Spark Conflict is an episode from Elder Law Report by Greg McIntyre, J.D., M.B.A..

This episode is 8:55 long.

This episode was published on Mar 5, 2026.

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