How to Take Back Control of Your Life (and Create the Exact Reality You Want)

Are you waiting for the right people, opportunities, or support to finally show up? In this episode, I’m calling out one of the biggest patterns that keeps people stuck: living in victim mode and waiting for life to happen to them instead of stepping up to create it. I share how I used to feel frustrated with my reality, relationships, and environment until I realized I was the one responsible for changing it. Get ready to learn how to shift the energy in any room, ask better questions, and start creating the conversations and connections you actually want. Check out our Sponsors: Granola - Granola is an AI-powered notepad built for the way real people actually meet. Get three months free at Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Indeed - Spend less time searching, and more time actually interviewing candidates who check all your boxes. Indeed is giving Earn Your Happy listeners a $75 SPONSORED JOB CREDIT to help get your job the premium status it deserves. Just go to right now and support our show by saying you heard about Indeed on Earn Your Happy. Rella - Rella is a project management platform built specifically for social media managers and teams. Go to and use code EARN for 10% off your first three months or annual plan. HIGHLIGHTS How to instantly upgrade your stagnant conversations and relationships. Why you should create your own mastermind (even for free). Why nothing changes until YOU change your actions. Ways to shift the energy in any room instantly. How to build a powerful network from scratch. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE! Try glōci for 40% off your first order with code HAPPY at checkout - head to getgloci.com FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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How to Take Back Control of Your Life (and Create the Exact Reality You Want) is an episode from Earn Your Happy by Lori Harder.

This episode is 17:08 long.

This episode was published on Apr 16, 2026.

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