How to Ask for Referrals and Actually Get Them

Most people ask for referrals the wrong way — and that’s why they rarely get them. In this episode, Dan Lok shares 10 powerful, word-for-word scripts you can use to generate more high-quality referrals without sounding needy or awkward. You'll learn: When to ask (hint: it’s not when you think) How to plant a “referral seed” that leads to easy follow-ups Why future pacing and using your prospect’s exact words can make all the difference How to close referrals just like you close a sale Whether you’re in real estate, marketing, coaching, or any service-based business — these strategies will help you turn happy clients into referral machines.

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How to Ask for Referrals and Actually Get Them is an episode from Dan Lok Show by Dan Lok.

This episode is 8:43 long.

This episode was published on May 26, 2025.

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