The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’

This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.” We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere) • Why communication is not “being nosy” • New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes • Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats • Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies • What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional 🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL 2 oz vodka 1 oz fresh lemon juice 0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrup Splash of cranberry juice 2–3 cucumber slices Club soda to top Garnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twist How to make it: Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!

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The Truth About ‘Vibes’ Dating: Why Men Think Basic Questions Are ‘Too Much’ is an episode from CockTales: Dirty Discussions by Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe.

This episode is 65:03 long.

This episode was published on Dec 11, 2025.

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