What Families Get Wrong About College Recruiting - with Jay Paterno

In this episode, we're joined by Jay Paterno — former D1 coach, author, and advocate for the future of college athletics. Son of coaching legend Joe Paterno and author of BLITZED! , Jay brings a rare perspective that bridges tradition and transformation in the world of recruiting. Together, we unpack what most families are missing when it comes to choosing the right school — and why chasing offers, rankings, or money first leads to burnout, disappointment, and regret. You’ll learn: Why the most successful programs recruit values first, not stats The thing players need to hear from parents after games How mental performance and leadership actually get kids recruited The real toll NIL, early commitments, and the transfer portal are taking Why most families are spending money backward — and what to do instead Whether you're a parent, coach, or athlete navigating the recruiting chaos, this episode is your permission to slow down, zoom out, and lead with clarity. Ready to go all in? Book a W INNER GAME Recruiting Strategy Call → mentalsweetspot.com/ winnergame

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What Families Get Wrong About College Recruiting - with Jay Paterno is an episode from Coaching the Mental Game of Softball by Mental Sweet Spot.

This episode is 34:18 long.

This episode was published on Dec 16, 2025.

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