248 - The Hidden Cost of Overgiving in Relationships

Have you ever cared about someone so much that you slowly disappeared? Have you ever been the strong one, the helper, the fixer — only to wake up exhausted, resentful, or unsure where you went? In this week’s episode of Life Happens with Barb & Michelle , we explore the hidden cost of overgiving in relationships and how codependency, people-pleasing, and emotional overfunctioning quietly lead to burnout. Inspired by Codependent No More by Melody Beattie, this conversation shifts the focus from controlling others to caring for yourself. We talk about boundaries, emotional exhaustion, self-worth, detachment, and how to stop losing yourself in relationships. If you struggle with: Overgiving feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions difficulty setting boundaries relationship burnout or constantly putting others first …this episode is for you. 💬 Barb shares how she began recognizing her codependent patterns during addiction and divorce — and how healing started when she stopped trying to manage everyone else’s experience. 💬 Michelle opens up about losing herself in past relationships and how she rebuilt trust with her own voice, needs, and intuition. ✨ In This Episode, We Discuss: How overgiving leads to resentment and emotional fatigue The difference between love and codependency Why healthy relationships require boundaries How to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself Acceptance, detachment, and emotional resilience Rebuilding self-worth after toxic dynamics You cannot pour from an empty cup. Healthy love is mutual. Boundaries are not selfish — they are necessary. If you’re ready to stop overextending, start honoring your needs, and build balanced, lasting relationships, press play. 💗 Mentioned in today’s episode: Melody Beattie’s When Things Fall Apart: 📘 Go Deeper with Dear Friend If this episode on overgiving, boundaries, and rebuilding self-worth resonates with you, you may also love Michelle’s USA TODAY bestselling book, Dear Friend — a daily reflection companion created to help you reconnect with your inner voice, honor your needs, and build emotional clarity one day at a time. Because healing codependency doesn’t start with changing someone else. It starts with strengthening your relationship with yourself. And that may be the most important relationship you’ll ever build. 👉 Order your copy: 🎧 Listen to the audiobook and step into a year that truly loves you back: 💬 We’d love to hear from you! What insight or moment resonated most with you in this episode? Share in the comments—we truly read every one. 📅

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248 - The Hidden Cost of Overgiving in Relationships is an episode from Barb Knows Best by Michelle Maros & Barb Schmidt.

This episode is 00:44:16 long.

This episode was published on Mar 10, 2026.

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