Girl on Girl: The Erotic Haunting of Female Friendship

She watches your stories within seconds of posting. She tracks your location and demands to know why you didn’t text back immediately. She calls it “protective. She says she’s just “loyal.” But your nervous system knows the truth. This isn’t friendship, it’s surveillance. Female friendship in its shadow form looks a lot like demonic possession. It’s an unconscious binding spell cast by a woman who refuses to inhabit her own existence, so she decides to consume yours instead. She needs you to remain frozen in time, predictable, and small so that she can feel safe. In this episode, we’re ripping the veneer off the "Bestie" industrial complex. We’ll look at the physics of why women destroy each other, the zombie dynamic of forcing connection where there is only resentment, and the refusal to eat a slice of Saturn and grow the f*ck up. RESOURCES: * Click here to read the original Substack post that inspired this episode * Click here to check out books by Linda Schierse Leonard and here for some by Marion Woodman * Join the MOODS waitlist at moods.world * UNLOCK BONUS EPISODES, VOICE NOTES & THE FULL ARCHIVE: Join the BFTB Patreon community and become a Premium Submarine , where you’ll unlock hundreds of hours of paywalled content I’ve been building since 2021. Visit backfromtheborderline.com for free resources, updates, and everything else I offer. Or go straight to patreon.com/backfromtheborderline to join now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Girl on Girl: The Erotic Haunting of Female Friendship is an episode from Back From The Borderline by mollie adler.

This episode is 59:59 long.

This episode was published on Jan 27, 2026.

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