The Good Guy Problem: When Allyship Can’t Hear Feedback

Advancing Women Podcast by Dr. Kimberly DeSimone

Apr 20, 202620:29Education

What happens when the people we believe are on our side… can’t hear us? In this episode, I explore what I call the “good guy problem”…those moments when someone who sees themselves as fair, supportive, and an ally is giv...

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